I am feeling what you are saying is let go of the marriage and do things for myself change myself find someone else if that is,what I want to happen save myself stop working on saving or trying to rebuild ...would I be correct and yes you can hit me with a 2x4
That's the message you got from reading SH's post?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
