Taking my first sip of the water

[ATPeace]

Hi SH

So I just want to be clear and get some clarity

Ok so the harsh reality is she has made the decision to leave our marriage and she told me at the beginning that she would not change her mind

One year has passed and she is still living in the house and has made no efforts to move out or sell the house

I have had numerous conversations in the past and every time it leaves her feeling upset

You say you fear time is running out for me and this is what I need to understand are you saying that I need to be the one to say to her we need to sell the house and I need to move on rather than it comming from her or is it I just need too do more and change myself more and,not push for separate houses

Horse water drink ....do what must be done.

I am feeling what you are saying is let go of the marriage and do things for myself change myself find someone else if that is,what I want to happen save myself stop working on saving or trying to rebuild ...would I be correct and yes you can hit me with a 2x4

Thank you