Confused on What to Do 2

[Eagle11]

My W made a comment to me last night that I act like everything is fine. I think she means that I am usually in a good mood around her and I interact with her. I don't know what she trying to say and maybe I shouldn't have said anything, but I told her everything was not fine. I told her if everything was fine we wouldn't be living like we are living.

Also, I mentioned in a previous post that she talked about 4 or 5 guys that flirt with her. She called 2 of them by name (they are the ones I refer to as OM#1 and OM#2) which I didn't know how to take. I knew there names but I didn't really want to hear it said out loud. She told me I'm to blame for all these guys flirting with her because I never bought her a new wedding ring when she lost hers. She told me not to bother getting one now because she wouldn't wear it (that was the last thing I would do). She also said we can't use kids as an excuse to stay married. I never told her we need to stay married for the kids, I told her in the past I would like to try to work things out and the kids were a reason for that.

Anyway we go to bed in a weird place and then this morning I go downstairs and she wants to show me something on TV that she thought was funny. She also told me a funny story about our S2 talking in his sleep last night. It's just weird how she can switch from being so serious when we last talked last night to being my friend this morning.

I took her to get her rental car today for her work trip and she was texting OM#2. She was trying to hide it but I could still see it was him without even trying to snoop. He was texting her some funny pictures. She reminds me of a teenage girl with the way she texts.