Just working the process, but wondering when......

[cbtdad]

Thanks for the responses. That's where I was getting to I believe, but I jumped the gun. My lack of patience got the better of me last week I think. I've been working on constantly filling her love tank, but as my IC and I disused it gets hard when my love tank isn't been filled. That's the where the frustration comes in. I know she is trying and I know things are heading in the right direction, but I also have concerns about the future as well. Such as foreplay. With her sex is just sex, sometime with her toy with the both of us. It's been 5 years since oral or any other foreplay. Wife claims she doesn't like kissing. We haven't made out since 2009 if I had to guess.
That is where my mind starts to drift. I start going to the place of can I be happy in the end without the intimacy that I am looking for in a relationship.
That's what I meant when I responded to her text that I am scared too.