If you haven't figured it out yet by reading the threads here, the people who post are pretty insightful...
Finish DB. It's really important and will help you immensely in navigating the situation.
I understand wanting people to tell you you aren't crazy or the reason for all of this...
There is a whole forum. You aren't crazy.
That being said, we ALL have things that contribute to the downfall of the marriage.
It would be wonderful to just be able to sit back and blame everything on MLC. To say that bad childhoods and abuse are the ONLY reason this is happening.
If we are honest with ourselves, we can't do that. None of us are perfect and whenever you are dealing with more than one person in any situation, you will have different experiences.
Mr. Bond has a great point and I would love to see you answer his question...
And as for your friend...I have read your threads and you do seem to have turned to more than one female for comfort. I understand friendships, one of my best friends is male, however you have to be vigilant about these types of friendships. Things, ie emotions, change before we even realize it sometimes...
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
