Thanks for replying. You said it better than I ever could.
The one thing I do have going for me is my D is grown and living her life so I don't have custody or child support to worry about. She has said what is going on for the finances is unfair and she does hold resentment towards her mother because my W and I raised our D to be strong and independent. We wanted her to grow up and not have to depend on anyone to live you life, yet my W is doing the exact opposite of that. My D sees my W has being very hypocritical and now my D rarely talks to my W. It's something my W will eventually come to regret I'm afraid.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day