You can post anywhere on the Board that you wish. There are wonderful people on all of the forums who are more than willing to share, advise and offer up support to all those who come looking for answers.
I'll take a look at your previous threads later today and will be happy to provide some thoughts on your situation.
However, if your wife is still living under the same roof w/you and it's been two years, evidently something is working. If you are not putting pressure on her to "shape up or snap out of it", then that may be the reason that she is still at home. Some will remain in the home just as long as they are pretty much left to do their own thing, not criticized, no attempts to control and/or manipulate them, etc. If you attempt to control them, put pressure on them or watch their every move, some will move out just to get away from the "authority" figure.
So, let's begin. Tell us a bit about you. What are you doing in the way of GAL? Are you taking care of yourself?
Also, I'm going to suggest that you take a look at the threads that have been posted by ForeverYoung here, in the MLC Forum. His w remained in the home and some of what you posted on your recent thread reminded me of his situation.
