And to everyone that has posted -- I do appreciate all the comments and suggestions. I have never experienced pain like this and after reading the forum it helps to know it does get better. And the hope that I might be happy again -- even if it is without him. It is sad to see so many people with such similar stories. All these wayward spouses -- just doing what makes them feel good and leaving their families to pick up the pieces


Me: 42
Him: 45
Daughter: 13
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Married 16 Years, Together 17 Years
BD: 8/15/16
Moved out: 8/26/16