WAS or what 7

It is coming up on two years since I committed to save my failing M. We are still together so either I am doing something right or something wrong!! Whereas my W does not fit fully the mlc description I feel maybe being surrounded and guided by other long timers could be another something different to try.

I joined my previous thread (was or what 7) if hopefully some of you want to catch up. Maybe some fresh opinions could help. I don't post often enough in newcomers to have a lot of support. Plus my story differs a bit from many newbie struggling lbs's, in that my w is still here.

I will write more shortly. If ye feel I should be posting elsewhere I welcome your feedback.

Respect to all of ye over here. Some of your stories are incredible and to be honest daunting.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together