H filed for divorce - is it too late?

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Still feeling pretty bummed about his lack of affection the last time we hung out. I wasn't expecting a LOT of affection, obviously, but the little mixed signals he was sending gave me a little hope that he was still "on the fence" so to speak...

I don't get many chances to connect with him. Our schedule's are so opposite I hardly ever get to even see him. Pretty much just on weekends and even then he might want to go out with friends instead of spend time with me. I work in the mornings so he's asleep when I get up, and he works evenings so he's at work when I get home, and I'm asleep when he comes home.

I'm not sure if this is a good thing, as he did want more time/space, or a not so good thing, as now how will he see my changes? I know they're for me - and they are, a lot of my GAL changes have helped me immensely and I'm going to keep them up no matter what happens, but they're also a little bit for our M, aren't they? I mean, this isn't a purely "get over it" type of strategy, it's also a "save your marriage" strategy...

Planning to schedule DB coach session tomorrow after my IC appointment...