Yes, I too have came to the conclusion that this is less and less about me and more about W. However I am reluctant to give up the dating, since it was W who raised it. I am going to take your advice and become less demanding and see how that goes.
Mods, how do I get this moved to MLC?
M 10, T 18 M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6 EA: Oct 12 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: Aug 15 Separated: Sep 15 Miss you: Jun 16 Aug 16: Dating (!) Oct 16: Selfishness returns... currently: disgusted