Hiya! I am Wonka and I am a reformed badass former MLCer. What you post here about W screams MLC to me like bright neon pink lights in a deserted area at night.
I would suggest (and urge) you to move your thread over the MLC forum where you can get the necessary support of like-minded LBS dealing with a MLCer.
For now, it is essential--CRITICAL---to drop the whole "dating" notion you have (or trying to pursue) and leave W completely alone. She's one hot mess right now and 'dating' you isn't going to help her in this journey at all.
FWIW, I was a fairly young MLCer myself....being hit with a MLC at age 32. One does not need to be over 50+ to be hit by the runaway MLC train.
I hope you would seriously consider this suggestion.
Yes, I too have came to the conclusion that this is less and less about me and more about W. However I am reluctant to give up the dating, since it was W who raised it. I am going to take your advice and become less demanding and see how that goes.
Mods, how do I get this moved to MLC?
M 10, T 18 M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6 EA: Oct 12 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: Aug 15 Separated: Sep 15 Miss you: Jun 16 Aug 16: Dating (!) Oct 16: Selfishness returns... currently: disgusted
bump for mod request - how do I get this transferred to MLC?
M 10, T 18 M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6 EA: Oct 12 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: Aug 15 Separated: Sep 15 Miss you: Jun 16 Aug 16: Dating (!) Oct 16: Selfishness returns... currently: disgusted
started a new thread in MLC - mods can you move/link this to there?
M 10, T 18 M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6 EA: Oct 12 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: Aug 15 Separated: Sep 15 Miss you: Jun 16 Aug 16: Dating (!) Oct 16: Selfishness returns... currently: disgusted
It's easy to link your threads to another forum or within your postings. I will be happy to provide you w/easy instructions on how to do so when you get closer to the 100th posting/reply on your new thread.
However, because you had started a new thread over in MLC Land, I've gone ahead and edited your thread to include your two threads.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
