Albac - I am very sorry to hear you are going through this. But I have to say your W is really off. Less than two weeks after she is parading around you in her underwear and giving you leg massages she wants to introduce you to the OM. Seriously??

She should not be introducing anyone to your daughter right now. Why in the world would she think you want to meet this man?? I would hope she would have enough respect for your young daughter so as not to confuse her right now by introducing a guy she has been seeing for two months...and when this guy dumps her because he realizes she is off, then what??

Do you have a lawyer?? Maybe time to start playing some offense here. Set real boundaries. This woman seems incredibly too immature to be making parental decisions.

I know you are down about this news. It sux. We have all been there. But now you REALLY need to start thinking about how you see your future. There is nothing wrong with that. And quite frankly your W needs to start dealing in reality.

I admire the way you are handling this. Total integrity. All the time. No regrets.

Strength and Honor.

Mules


M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.