Cnut I see what are you are saying. I think that's what got me closer to that goal. But when she offered last Monday night and I just felt entitled after that. Like it should be happening then.
I am going to take that advice and put it to use.

Ginger, Thanks so much for chiming in. That's exactly what I felt after rereading the texts. I let it build up. I having been doing much better in that regard, but still working on it clearly.
Funny thing is that we really are in such a better place. I just need some sex! lol


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it