You're right Ginger. As soon as I responded I knew I wasn't clear on it. I wouldn't want her back if she was selfish enough to stay away purely for financial reasons. But I do have to be wise enough to know if she has doubts about getting back with me (for many reasons) then that will have to play into her decision. I can't kid myself it wouldn't.
My IC even asked me if I won the lottery would I still want her back. My answer is yes.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day