The next man you fall in love with ... how will you know you're not repeating the same pattern? Here in the U.S. the divorce rate is 50% for all marriages and 60% for second marriages and 70% for the third. So the odds are worse going forward.

I think about what it is about me, what is it that I do, that hurts a marriage? What kind of a person am I drawn to that is not a particularly healthy type of a person? You seem like one hell of a strong woman. How are you becoming different as a part of your current process....?


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final