ForGump - keep the clean boxers on. My W would go through phases where everything looked normal too.
The "future talk" though - if she was serious about it may well be positive. I never got any of that, just the sad "you're a moron" look whenever I talked about anything in a future that had an "us".
Sometimes the waves drop trash on the beach, other times they sweep the beach clean.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells