Mombear: Husband moving out thread #2

[Mombear]

Rose888, you are very thoughtful. That is a good question. I'm an impatient person by nature, and uncertainty is very hard for me. I keep getting wrapped around the idea that I'm not the kind of person who would normally put up with this - like I wouldn't marry someone who didn't want to be with me. If a friend told me her husband rented a separate apartment, I'd tell her to kick him to the curb.

Of course I want my marriage to work. But at what point do I become a doormat and lose myself in an effort to hold on to it? I get I'm being way too impatient at this point in the game. But how long do I let things go before I deserve answers?