Lol, yep, I made the mistake of trying to let my WW back without her working at it and being willing to do whatever it would take... It didn't even come close to working and just prolonged the pain for me.. Now I'm all or nothing, she shows me everything I want/need or she can go (which is what it looks like). Oh well, I'll move on and be happy, cause I'm not living in fear of an unknown future without her, or the pain of not knowing where we stand, I will only accept an outcome where I know where I stand, give me solid footing with or without her smile


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized