Yes I think we all feel interested in what may be happening with our spouse and their AP, but I make it a point of honour not to ask SS anything now. If I'm playing devils advocate, I would say that it is good he made an effort to cook them a nice meal - even if it did turn out a little bland.
We don't all reach a place of compassion until we've taken a journey to get there. The important thing is to take that journey and not get stuck in 'stinkin thinkin' of - oh he's just a moron and she's a parasite who preys on unavailable men etc. Ultimately, that kind of bitterness isn't what we want in our lives...at the end of the day, we are all responsible for ourselves, whatever anyone else may be doing.
Food for thought hopefully and well intended Mia
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
