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[rich4j]

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Got to agree with Sandi2. I know you are doing/thinking what is best for your d8 and sadly I have had some same thoughts.

"Man...i would suck it up so my d7 could have the family she deserves". NOOOO!!!

I can't do it anymore. Take the attitude that you deserve better and should never be treated this way again. By her or any other

I keep my texts and answers now to short, non descript info unless it is logistics. Separation anxiety is something you will need to reassure your D8 that you and your STBX are always there and not to worry. It sounds like you are making all the efforts to keep her safe/happy

My STBX is trying to be "buddies"...I don't want another buddy. I will be friends with her in the future on my terms. Do the same...distance yourself and fight those thoughts. You deserve better