Originally Posted By: Surfer
Thanks Cherry

I don't know I get the control from at times. My blood is boiling yet I do my best to be kind and serene.

Surfer.




Surfer, you do NOT have to be kind. You can be polite, and you can also be firm and unwavering. If you don't agree with the nonsensical crap being force fed you, you don't have to be kind about it. If your blood is boiling (and I KNOW how that feels) your best bet is to just say something that gets you out of the situation....


Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.