Sandi,

My D doesn't know about the affair... So I don't think she sees that. Maybe later in life but certainly not now. How do you suggest I handle it with her?

You know I'm starting to wonder now if my W experienced any infidelity as a child. Something we never talked about....

W officially moves out at the end of the month and I'm planning to further firm up boundaries then.


Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17