Confused on What to Do 2

[Eagle11]

I believe that this is an chance for her to see the new side of you to spend time together so see can see possibly even believe in her mind that you aren't the guy see has re-written in her mind at least for awhile.

Until you cannot do it any longer.

That was my door number one ^^^^

This is how I am feeling right now. If she is actually initiating spending time with me and acknowledging that she see change in me without me saying anything then I am going to keep doing what I am doing. I will not go out of my way to spend time with her or act needy, but if she wants to with me it might be the only way to change her perception of me.

I agree with you Jack_Three_Beans, the monsters that I have in my head about what she is doing might be much worse than what is actually going on. I know I have gotten paranoid about every guy she is talking too now. Which is stupid, because she works in a male dominated industry so she is going to have interaction with plenty of men on a daily basis. Do i think its strange that she and this OM #2 have been spending an unusual amount of time texting? Yes, but I have no proof that anything is going on, and if I said something to her then I can't imagine what the consequences would be for me and my W's relationship.