Originally Posted By: Natus
Dammit what is wrong with me. Im less detached now than i was last last week.

2x4 please!
Im thinking of snooping. Rationale, i want concrete proof shes been incontact w OM so i can proceed with divorce. I know dumb right....


Nates, not dumb... I felt the same exact way, I did not want to give up on my M if she wasn't still communicating with OM.. I really was positive she was, but I needed proof before I was willing to move on. I put a VAR in her car and got proof the same day, and verification again in 2 days, that's when I felt I was justifiable in giving up on saving M.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized