When I first started posting I was told to stop being so hard on myself. That both parties have contributed to the problems in the marriage, however small. Now that I am acknowledging that she had a role in bringing about this divorce situation - you are telling me I am wrong. It was my fault entirely.
We are taught here that fully allowing yourself to grieve is an essential part of letting go and arriving at acceptance. Feelings of anger, resentment etc. are part of the grieving process - and now that I’m experiencing them you are telling me that I have to suppress them.
Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16
