She told you before to stop your negative behaviors and you didn't. Just because you now have "woken up" to how bad things were for her doesn't mean that she still has to follow your pace. It's like you expect her to do what you want when you want. This is her way of getting away from that control.
Too many times I've seen LBSs get caught up in their anger, yet they forget their spouse hinted or told them about the problems before the bomb drop. Yet the LBS just ignores it.
She told you about the things that bothered you and you blew it off. Would you want to live with someone who doesn't listen to your needs?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
