You know, you are really an exceptional mom. You always go out of your way to ease the path for your ex and his wife with your daughter, and it boggles my mind that you and he both see her together on her birthday every year. That is a wonderful gift to her.
And G, I agree that exNG is resisting you. Strikes me as strange, as you were just being friendly and sweet, and not pursuing. And while you were out scavenger hunting, he was just as weird and awkward as while you were there. I think he is just not the guy we all thought he was, not under the surface where it counts. He does not deserve you. His daughter does, poor girl, but he does not.
Did you like any of the condos you saw? How did the birthday party go?
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17