Quote: Why should being "considerate" be an experiment?
The thing is... I'm trying to learn to communicate my love for her in her LL, which she has said are mainly Acts of Service and Words of Affirmation. As has been posted elsewhere (by... who - hairdog?), just doing chores around the house doesn't actually "count" as AOS. I'm starting to realize that true AOS are at least somewhat "over the top". Also, I've posted that one major diff between me and W is that if I need something, I'll just get up and get it, whereas she prefers to ask me to get it (AOS again, I think). So I'm trying to learn little ways I can make love-bank deposits, so I can keep it filled up for her. With practice, I'm hoping I can do this on a fairly continuous basis. Of course, I'm hoping that the end result of this will be that she will want to make similar love-bank deposits in my primary LL, and I'll get to fill up her "other" love-tank more often...
