Yes. Yes I do. I have read every line. I have seen the legend that told me of the great article.
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I will go wash it.....
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Yes, that is good Always a good show of etiquette.
RosaLinda
You are too kind. I can do hugs. Not my thing typically, but D18 is teaching me the value of them. I ma changing and trying new thing, so i would welcome a hug from such a kind person as you. Natural born DBer huh? I'll take that. I feel I did not get much of a shot at it with my WAW. I knew I needed something for years, but was not able to identify what until it was to late. I do stand by all that is DB and the wisdom of MWD as it clearly is a deeper message than simply changing up things to save our marriage. I sometimes feel that I am simply a survivor, more so than a Dber, but your compliment is one I will put on and wear with pride nonetheless. Thank you for the Birthday wishes, it will be an interesting year to look back on these ones for my family.
I live in the Southwest US and in my area once files, it could take as little as 2 months for the D. Supposedly it was files by her on April 29th. It is out of character to not hear back from my L so that is where my concern is. That and STBX tries to indicate that I am dragging things out. Funny as there is not much to drag out. I am in a no fault 50 50 state so it is pretty clear cut and with the finances already taken care of, it is more just some retirement stuff and custody details. I am not in a rush as the only thing that will change for me is a few dollars a month for child support and the legality of bing able to date and marry again. Child support is no big deal and the dating thing....not for a while, so things remain as they are now.
Chuck is my DB coach as well. Good guy and helped me in the thick of it all. I still have 2 more sessions, just not sure what he can do for me now.....
I agree, this community helped me in my darkest of moments....I will pay that back 1000 fold as I can not express the details of how it saved me....there were several that I will forever be indebted to even if they do not know it. And now I continue to find new friends for a new leg of my journey. You Linda are now one of them.
GRL!!! JksD!! Dory!!
So good to hear from you again. I was sad to see you in such a state of late. I was not expecting that and it was hard and I was at a loss as to what to say or do. You are a dam fine woman And no matter what the XH does with...how to you call her? TPT? You are the real queen and she is....well not even worth mentioning. I saw a post in the instagram world that applies here. It was a pic of a man and woman kissing with a guy behind them jumping for joy. The caption was, "When your ex finally moves on and starts ruining someone elses life." LOL. Just a slight perspective shift for some of us and we will feel more at peace. Woefully you won't be away to long as I always appreciate you and what you have brought to my life in these times.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
