Maybe it's time to revisit that conversation about giving up her relationship with OM then? Tell her that since she says she is going to move out soon, and will not give up her "friendship" with OM, you want to live as if you are divorced, now, even before she leaves. She needs to pay her own bills, and start living as if you are divorced. And see a lawyer about your rights.

PS It's about time for you to start a new thread.


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17