H filed for divorce - is it too late?

[csabo]

Yeah, I didn't mention it before because I'm more of a private person and it's embarrassing to me. I'm not sure why, but sex started hurting about 3 years ago so became infrequent. Every time I went to the dr they gave me pills for a yeast infection but it never really helped, it so hurts to have sex. We would still "fool around" but... It's not the same. And he would end up having finish himself most nights. I'm so ashamed, especially if this is a major contributing factor to our divorce.

I knew it was important to him, but I guess I didn't realize quite how much. That he would feel unloved misunderstood, and rejected.

Thank you for that insight, I will try harder to understand. And I will call a DB coach. I hadn't yet because I had almost given up all hope, but if there's even a 1% chance, I have to fight for it.