I know some of the things I need to see before my walls come down. Increased time with S being paramount. Also, stop telling me what to do, speaking to me in a respectful manner as much as possible, not taking advantage of me or situations, opening up more, being interested more in me, etc.
Well I sound like a nagging W when I remind you that she is not going to stop treating you that way..........until you show her she can't get away with it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
