Oh, and right before the separation my x and I went tattoo shopping together because we were going to get D's name and birthday. Then he bomb dropped.
He did eventually get his. On his honeymoon with OW.
I still am getting mine, but it's my D who I'm going to bring with me. I understand. It a ting it linked to the separation, but I don't know if I would link it to her and separation. Make it about you!