I'm not upset, you don't need to explain yourself I get what you mean, I would potentially say to wh that he's angered me, however I most probably would not tell him he's a d!ck- that kinda thing would hang about on him.
I'm feeling a bit more zen at the moment. That quote if andrewp's really struck a cord today. That he's in his own crisis, why yes, yes he is. So he can deal with that, while I make sure me and the little people (& mil) are taken care of.
If anger arises, I'll be sure to jot it down to make sure I prevent it from spiking across to him or anyone else for that matter. Then I'll breathe and keep on keeping on.
And surfer, you are more than welcome. Didn't anyone ever tell you that sharing is caring consider it a gift from me to you, written oh so eloquently.
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16
I get what you mean, I would potentially say to wh that he's angered me, however I most probably would not tell him he's a d!ck- that kinda thing would hang about on him. 
consider it a gift from me to you, written oh so eloquently.
