Quote: ----------- She wasn't irritated, and there was a smile in her voice, as if she was enjoying my attentions, but I got the feeling that maybe she also feels slightly uncomfortable about it, so I started thinking that maybe I should back off a bit with the AOS and WOA, but I'm not sure. -----------
Maybe she is getting uncomfortable because she knows you are trying, and to her, that means she has to try too.
To most LD spouses, maintaining the status quo is probably most comfortable. The dynamics of most relationships will tend to settle them into a rut that favors one spouse over the other. Upsetting an unhealthy balance requires input :-)
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
