Papers are filed, here comes the D. Focus on me

[Zues126]

As I said my comments weren't aimed at Cherry specifically, they were general comments based on trends I've seen lately among a number of threads.

No one is saying LBS's are wrong to feel anger.
No one is saying LBS's are wrong for venting their anger.

What I AM saying is there is a difference between expressing pain and anger, and being nasty. For example, it is one thing to say "It really hurts and infuriates me when WAS does ______". It is another to say "WAS is an @%&#*, they are an idiot, they stupid, they are the scum of the earth", or whatever else. We all have the right to our emotions, but we also have the responsibility to choose what types of humans we want to be and how we choose to express them. And for me I didn't like name calling and personal attacks on the 3rd grade schoolyard and I don't feel any differently about it now.

To Cherry and all LBS's, I absolutely agree that the betrayal of the WAS is one of the most hurtful and destructive things that a human can choose to do in this world. I'm on record of saying not only is it ok to be upset, I'm glad when LBS's are upset, because if they weren't it would mean that they are either sociopaths or seriously avoidant. By all means, get it all out here, and way you choose. If everyone gives a moment's thought to how they want to express that going forward then my post accomplished it's goal.