This is your thread and you can spew if you want to (to the tune of it's my party and I'll cry if I want to). This is a safe place for you to let out your thoughts and feelings and you should not have to censor yourself! You also have nothing to apologize for.
IMO this has nothing to do with what age an H bonds with his child, your thread has to do with the fact that YOUR WH is severely neglecting his ill pregnant wife and his young child. It is very troubling and completely unacceptable! So let's call him what we need to, but not focus on HIM because he doesn't deserve your attention, not because it is a trigger for other readers here.
You are getting stronger and want to be keep moving forward and for that we all admire you! I love reading your GAL & 180 posts because I am rooting for you to move on without WH. I hope he moves out soon so you can at least feel comfortable in your own home and not have the A (him coming and going) staring you in the face. Him being in the home is very unsettling and confusing for you and your S. You deserve to be surrounded with love and support.
Keep that chin up mama! He deserves nothing from you right now and if he wants to see S, then he needs to put the full effort forth to arrange it. You don't need to take care of that on top of EVERYTHING you are doing. He needs to start being accountable for his choices. You continue to focus on you and those beautiful babes.
You got this!!! Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
