MLC, WAW or WW?? Who really knows? Help...pls

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Sandi, I think "temp checking" is more in line with what's happening. There's no sign of any remorse for what she's doing. At least not outwardly so I really don't know what's going on in her head or heart. OM is still actively in the picture and she is bringing our kids around him regularly. One of 2 things could be happening. Sandi, is it possible that she could be trying to change the dynamics of her relationship w/OM? Are there subtle signs that would show she is struggling with guilt or maybe having an awakening? Or do I just forget all subtleties and assume that her waywardness is here to stay?

As far as soft touch go's,, I'm really not sure what my reaction should be? Right now during the times that I am questioning if there is an attempt of T&G, I try to just accept and not refuse the attempt or throw it back. Most of the time I just act as if nothing is occurring and leave it at that. Just like last night, she came into the living room and watched a movie with me, just the 2 of us. She kept her phone with her and was texting on it part of the time. I acknowledged her watching the movie with me and we had small discussions throughout the movie which she was happy to join in. Then today business as usual and openly rude behavior. She still avoids time and space around or with me which is why I am left wondering when she spends any time with me at all.

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