Thanks for the response - yes the other side of taking the ring off or dating is the impact it has on my D10 - right now she sees me as the stable Dad and Husband - I'm showing her what commitment is and how to not give up.
I unfortunately don't get a sense that my W is watching me... if anything I think she's trying to detach from me more and more... interactions are becoming less frequent and communication is becoming more on an as "needed" basis. (I'm pretty sure OM and IC are pushing her towards this detaching - even though she may not want to).
She did however reach out last week for help with something which caught me by surprise (since it's probably something OM could have helped with) and she still likes my posts on FB... so perhaps in some weird way she's watching me/testing me.
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17