As for if there ever were to be talk of her moving back in (of which there is none). I know if I am not careful the R could be the same as before, which is why I have my conditions that I made a long time ago and will stick to.
If W is to ever want to R, 1. Yes we will share M bed, that doesn't mean there will be sex or anything, that is something that will come In time as the R grows.
2. We will go to couples counselling. Not an option. We had and will have issues to be worked out.
3. There needs to be blood tests done because I have no idea if she may have contracted something during her time away. My personal safety is important and I am not risking my life because of her choices.
4. Total transparency with phone/ Fb/ and any social media or emails. Trust was broken and if she requests info the same that is fine I have nothing to hide. It will only be an issue is there is something to hide. ( this includes complete break off of communication with OM)
These are major things if anything were to ever lead to R. As of right now I have zero expectations that i will ever implement them, just wanted to share some things that I will hold her to if that time ever comes.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
