Quote: Since when did 'I think I'll take a bath' translate into 'lets have sex later'!!!
I'm sure I've posted this before, but a refresher never hurts... W always needs to have a bath before sex... "to relax and get in the mood". It's long been one of my main complaints, because it means she's always the initiator, and it also makes things very ritualized, but at the moment, since I've been sex-starved for so long, I'm not going to be too fussy about that. If we DO ml tonight, it'll be the second time in less than 2 weeks, so that'll be a BIG WIN. Anyway, suffice to say the bath is W's sex signal. I'm not getting myself TOO worked up, I'm just hoping, because we've been able to sit down early, I've had a couple of small AOS opportunities (which I did NOT waste), so I'm guardedly hopeful. We'll see. I am going to be lovingly accepting of anything she is able to offer me this evening. I need to build up a level of trust. Wish me luck!