Believe it or not, I do get it that doing an AOS LL thing is not just "doing chores" but going over the top to do something special. In this case, it wasn't "setting the table", it was spending the WHOLE DAY being attentive to her every need - making sure things got done when they needed to without having to be asked or reminded, and being cheerfully willing to do whatever she asked. It made for a VERY smoothly-running afternoon. I do KNOW just how much she appreciated it, especially since it was fairly out-of-character for me. It's the "grand gesture" that makes it a LL fill-up. I see that now.
