"to do what he's done is inexplicable. The way he has moved on from me and the kids so quickly with this ow and child is hard to take."

Yes I know, it's pretty tough for sure....but not inexplicable...in terms of MLC his actions are pretty typical. He will give every impression of having moved on and at the moment, any fond thoughts of you and of 'old' family life are firmly stuffed away in a box. However, there can often be some regret (and possible desire to return) in time - and plenty of it.

Ultimately, it's up to you as to whether you would want to consider a possible R - but for now, try and focus on getting yourself to the best place possible.

Xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus