She may be pulled back in. But even if she isn't, try to remember the A was a symptom, not the root problem. It wouldn't surprise me if she wanted 'time to think', or time to 'find out who she is on her own', and if that translated down the road to another partner (after all, in her mind it might have been the right idea just the wrong person). Or she may just decide that she wants a divorce and wants to be single.
Who knows. Just a reminder that we can't predict the future, you can't control her, the A isn't the real issue, and you truly have to let go and make a good life for yourself without putting it on hold to hope she 'comes around'. This might take years and often doesn't happen at all, and I don't want you on a roller coaster based on how you interpret her confusion.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
