Cherry. H is filing and leaving. Working on me

[Cherry]

Thank you all for the advise, and thank you blu for the 2*4 with rusty nails!! I know what you say is right. I do, and I am getting there with this, my mentality is somewhat better from a week or two ago and certainly from a month or two ago!

He is going, in the next few weeks. Today when he was looking at places and asked my opinion, I would not engage with that- as its his decision to break the family, I'm not going to support it.

I guess I could have shut him down straight away, this is where I am still learning. But the fact I walked away let him know that he couldn't come running to me to fulfil that side when he has fired me as his wife. When he moves out I feel he will start to feel the full effect, his m refuses to speak to him, and s is even getting reluctant to go to him.

Wrt to the ow, I still don't know for sure if this is a pa. he says it's nothing but I don't believe that, and I know I can't take his word for sh!t.