Thank you Corri because this applies to me too. My W is forever calling for me from far flung corners of the house (often while I am busy working) and expects me to come running usually for something trivial that she could have done herself. If I need something I just do it or I seek her out if I need her help. I would never shout her name and expect her to come to me. Of course on those occasions when she brings me a cup of tea instead of asking me to make it, should I see it as a sign of love and not just a cuppa? SD
