Maybs - Pt3

[maybs]

NYGal she is a real pain! She's just bored and one of those chronically displeased people who will never be happy no matter what you do. It was a bit difficult to remain calm with her during that situation and since then our interactions have been strained to say the least.

Nothing new going on over here. I'll be heading to my hometown this weekend. My grandma is celebrating her 90th birthday tomorrow so we are throwing her a big party. It will be the first time I see my family since BD not really looking forward to it. They are a very religious bunch who really tried to open their hearts to my W even though they disagree with same-sex relationships they loved me enough to make the effort. I'm curious to see what their reactions will be. Part of me doesn't even want to attend, I just don't want pity but I want to go for my gramma, she's getting up there and who knows how many more birthdays there will be.

Have resumed planning a trip for over Thanksgiving this year. W and I had planned to go to Florida for a week and see one of my best friends and when everything happened I cancelled the trip because I didn't think I could afford it on my own. I decided if I tried to plan it and nothing was going as planned then that was a sign I should go but I have the time off work approved and have a plan for my parents to take care of my dogs, everything is just kind of falling into place easily so it seems like the best thing.

Planning another trip for over Christmas time. Maybe to Tahoe to see my brothers? Maybe I'll just have a staycation and cuddle up and watch movies. We will see what happens.

I'm really excited. I've always loved travelling and when all of this started I kind of crushed my own trip dreams. But now that I'm back on my feet and doing good financially I see no reason not to make these trips on my own.