Ok history of OM as far as I am aware. She works in a preschool that shares a building with a school for ages 6 - 12.
He works in the daycare section of that school and...
Hmm...
She's been having her practical education there for the last 4 years, 4 weeks at a time every term.
Apparantly he's recently dieted / started working out properly. Used to be fat.

Ok, she has been giving a running commentary of his actions since the talk and he's been sort of avoiding her like I did in the beginning of the summer that we got together. He has now left the school and at first didn't even reply to her email about getting an email or phone number. Now he has okayed her friend request on facebook. One that she apparantly removed.

Either she is trying to make me jealous (something she has always wanted, but I have a tendency to blow up for a short time or keep my cool for practically forever lasting anger/jealousy isn't something I can sustain.) or he is a bigger problem than I thought.
Though it is pretty clear that it is her divorced friend that keeps trying to push them together. That's what it feels like from random halfcontradictory comments anyway.