Drop the Rope VII

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No need to apologise. Plus you have almost written as much on my thread as me.

Your angle differs from many here and where most see cake eating, selfishness, conflict you see through the pain and see opportunitiesor at least potential opportunities. Don't lose that.

I am sorry you are out of steam. I assume that is mainly due to a stagnation in your situation. I wish that was otherwise. Truly I do. But you will bounce back as you always do. Taking a break from here is sometimes necesary for our own mental health. We have seen many old friends fall be the wayside. There is no shortage of newbies. Yet we are still here fighting a long battle against the odds.

Most lbs here don't have much choice in staying together. We are lucky to have that choice. We are still with our wives because WE CHOSE to do so. Many could argue that we are wrong to accept such a M/R. I don't think it is that simple and being RIGHT is over ratted! I think we have made the right choice.

Without this site and you in particular I would have probably not being so patient. I thank you for that.

A month or so ago you madke a comment on my thread about how I could be depicted as a neglectful H/dad who walks away if I choose that course. This struck me but frankly I am not concerned about what others think. Plus I would be deciding to not live like that as opposed to not staying together. How I live within our couple/family is another choice. I accept it will be however I let it be. Anyway to get back to why it struck me and why I mention it here. I got the feeling this was something you believe in your situation. Am I wrong?

I only dropped by to wish you well this weekend. Congratulations for making the team. Enjoy your first derby. Let us know how it goes.